This is for all my fellow freshmen, the class of 2015. Whether you are at college like me or are just starting high school. We freshies need to stick together. Ii want this blog to be interactive.
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Is romance dead?
Disclaimer: I will tell you what I know from personal experience you all may have your own versions of relationships.
So, I have been around the dating world. I know akward first dates and awful kissers. And then there is the flip side, when you meet someone who you just end up connecting with in a way you never thought possible. (get your mind out of the gutter, not just sexual attraction but an emotional one too.) My boyfriend who will not be named due to privacy (friend me on facebook if you do not believe me.) Have been dating for about a year and a half, and so far it has gone smoothly.
So how do you keep a relationship strong? I feel that this is a question that has been such a huge dilemma in so many relationships especially in a world where romance has died. Or has it? My boyfriend has this strange ability to make every little thing absuletely amazing, no there is no candle lit dinner or a trip to the theatre. He acts so strong (in a good way, remember to keep your eyes open if you are in a dangerous relationship, it is not right no matter what they tell you.) I feel he is my protector, and while at times he can be serious there are other times when we will act so silly. What I am trying to say is that maybe romance is not really dead, sure it is not what we read in fairytales, but what really is true from those fairytales, not all of us are Kates we probably will not find a 'real' prince but this does not mean that who we end up with will not be just as good.
Because it is modern time, don't let the guy be the only one to sweep you off your feet, do the same for him. Again you do not need to have a fancy dinner, a couple of tickets to his favorate band or sports team will do. Even a sweet note (make sure that you give it to him privately)
For more tips return back soon
Until next time,
R
Friday, October 28, 2011
What Happens Next?
My grandma has taken a turn to the worst and her importance to me has started shining brigther than ever. She may be one of the most difficult woman to set straigth but I love that about her. Dealing with what now is the inevitable; hey it is what she wants. I have began reflecting on what becomes of all of us. (pardon the deepness that I am about to bring to you) Is there really a God? Do we all meet up in Heaven? What is hell as it must be different for everyone...
I have began trying to reevaluate what matters to me, I am putting a handle on everything I possably can.
In times like this; a death, heart break, etc... try this:
1) Write everything out (like I do whith this blog, or use a journal)
2) You may need time to heal but NEVER push those away that you love (I realize I have been distant with my friends, those old and those new; hear me out I will make it up to all of you!)
3) It's ok to ask for help. Seriousaly, the saying is overused because it is true! As a college student I had a difficult time realizing that hey maybe I do need help, whether just talking with someone or asking for help on assignments. If you have a good reason for struggling people will help!
If you read this thank you.
Until next time,
R
Thursday, October 13, 2011
The Big 4
Monday, October 10, 2011
A is for apple
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Not so Sweet
Friday, September 30, 2011
The Art of Making Friends
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Butting Heads
Freshmen!
I have been awol for a while, forgive me with all the newness of collage it can take your breath away.
I have learned a lot in the past weeks; firstly joggling everything is difficult! Seriously! When did hanging friends seem like such a chore, no offense to them who I love to pieces, but since school I have had no true 'me-time' which leaves me in a sort of a mess.
Not that I necessarily need to have 'me-time' all the time, however it chills me out. It relaxes me. (so here's a question you guys, whoever you are; what relaxes you? Do you need your own 'me-time'? or do you need to be surrounded by people?)
My quick fix for stressful times like this is:
* Dancing like crazy (where no one can see you of course :))
* Curling up with a good book, I can be such a book worm sometime
* Watching shows that I never want people to know I watch (but hey if you have the same guilty pleasure let me know, then I will tell you mine!)
Those are my top three, I will let you guys in later on more of my chill tips!
So this blog first started as a vlog on youtube under the username TheFashionqueen93, however I just have no time to record and post videos and at the moment I sound like a frog, I have a horrible cold. So I will save you from the disaster that is me at the moment.
Perhaps in the near future I can record some new videos and promote this blog.
Until next time
R